Quite honestly it was really surprising to hear that. The media has been reporting rumours of their break up a while ago.
Don't see how they got together in the first place.
Sandy Lam and Jonathan Li formally announce their divorce
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For the past 4 years, I have always felt that something was missing. On top of that, we have had differences that we couldn't resolve and most importantly: I don't want her to change sooo much for me. That's not fair for her and not fair for me. Sometimes I feel that she's changed so much, she's not really herself any more. And that makes me feel terribly bad although I have changed for her too.
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changing for another person is not right at all. they fell in love or liked the way you were in the beginning, why not now? love should be unconditional. why did you change? to meet her standards? to make her happy? what's most important is your happiness. before making others happy, you must make yourself happy first.
compromise is the key...
but if that doesn't work out, then well...you know.
it's time to find someone else you can compromise with.
compromise is the key...
but if that doesn't work out, then well...you know.
it's time to find someone else you can compromise with.
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thats right. I totally agree with mb_rockstar. I believe that a person doesn't need to change if you really love that person and love them just the way they are and should respect the person for who they are. Sometimes a person really love other person they will change for them without saying anything.
I hope I didn't offend anyone.
Rachel
I hope I didn't offend anyone.
Rachel
yeah, i think Rockstar and twinklestars are right about not changing for anyone else........but i think it's just a little harder than it sounds. I wish i have more self-control, but when i love a person, i always think of her first, i want her to be happy cuz i know it'll make me happier. Fortunately, i have a gf that thinks the sameway as a i do.
I'm not sure what changing for a person is really like............does it mean changing personality? If my gf caused me to change some bad habits of mine such as smoking, i'll be grateful.
Sorry Mike,
Eddy
I'm not sure what changing for a person is really like............does it mean changing personality? If my gf caused me to change some bad habits of mine such as smoking, i'll be grateful.
Sorry Mike,
Eddy