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Sandy Lam and Jonathan Li formally announce their divorce
Posted: Sun Jul 18, 2004 9:40 am
by Mavis
Quite honestly it was really surprising to hear that. The media has been reporting rumours of their break up a while ago.
Don't see how they got together in the first place.
Posted: Mon Jul 19, 2004 5:17 pm
by twinklesstars
i think they were really in love with each other in the first place. thats how they got together.
Posted: Mon Jul 19, 2004 10:23 pm
by Mikey_
Long time no see! Where have you been?
Posted: Fri Jul 23, 2004 5:58 am
by Guest
Hi !
Wow !! Sandy Lam is getting divorce, if she marry me.
I could Love her forever
Posted: Tue Jul 27, 2004 6:37 pm
by twinklesstars
Hi Mikey
i've been busy with school and work. I also been going to the gym. I didn't have much a good year.
How have you been? What have you been up to? Hows your girlfriend? I forgetten her name. I am sorry about that.
Rachel
Posted: Tue Jul 27, 2004 6:57 pm
by Mikey_
Hi Rachel!
I've been working at Neliance.com to help open up another new venture. We'll see how this one will go. I've also been working out at home quite a bit and lost 15 pounds. 15 more to go to reach my target weight.
My girlfriend? She and I are separated since over 2 weeks ago.
Michael
Posted: Wed Jul 28, 2004 5:12 pm
by twinklesstars
Hi Mikey
I am sorry to hear that you and her are separated. I hope u don't mind if i ask you this question. how did you and her separated? I've been going to the gym since last year in december. I lost 6-8 kgs now. I wish you good luck in reaching your goal.
Rachel
Posted: Wed Jul 28, 2004 9:11 pm
by Mikey_
For the past 4 years, I have always felt that something was missing. On top of that, we have had differences that we couldn't resolve and most importantly: I don't want her to change sooo much for me. That's not fair for her and not fair for me. Sometimes I feel that she's changed so much, she's not really herself any more. And that makes me feel terribly bad although I have changed for her too.
Posted: Wed Jul 28, 2004 9:24 pm
by mb_rockstar
changing for another person is not right at all. they fell in love or liked the way you were in the beginning, why not now? love should be unconditional. why did you change? to meet her standards? to make her happy? what's most important is your happiness. before making others happy, you must make yourself happy first.
compromise is the key...
but if that doesn't work out, then well...you know.
it's time to find someone else you can compromise with.
Posted: Thu Jul 29, 2004 8:36 am
by Mikey_
Yep
Posted: Fri Jul 30, 2004 12:47 am
by twinklesstars
thats right. I totally agree with mb_rockstar. I believe that a person doesn't need to change if you really love that person and love them just the way they are and should respect the person for who they are. Sometimes a person really love other person they will change for them without saying anything.
I hope I didn't offend anyone.
Rachel
Posted: Fri Jul 30, 2004 8:44 am
by Eddy
yeah, i think Rockstar and twinklestars are right about not changing for anyone else........but i think it's just a little harder than it sounds. I wish i have more self-control, but when i love a person, i always think of her first, i want her to be happy cuz i know it'll make me happier. Fortunately, i have a gf that thinks the sameway as a i do.
I'm not sure what changing for a person is really like............does it mean changing personality? If my gf caused me to change some bad habits of mine such as smoking, i'll be grateful.
Sorry Mike,
Eddy